Today, I get divorced. At 2:45. If we go through with it. It isn’t over ’till it’s over, and even then, it isn’t really over.
Inspiration is needed. My friend in Slovakia (yeah, cool, I have a friend in Slovakia 
) sent me this link. The father does the entire Ironman taking along his child who has special needs. Watch it, cry with me, and know that no matter what, we are all so fortunate, so blessed.
It is all going to be OK…. Right? Now, here I go, stepping into the future. Let’s go, Amigas, come with me, hold my hand.
CAN
8 responses so far ↓
Liz // October 16, 2009 at 2:08 pm |
Sending good thoughts your way…
Julie // October 16, 2009 at 2:44 pm |
Hard day. Thinking of you, and sending a huge hug.
Evelyn // October 16, 2009 at 3:33 pm |
Holding your hand from here (and boo-hooing over that video). Feel free to call if you need to!
sackrosanct // October 16, 2009 at 5:50 pm |
You can do it.
The process sucks, but when this big step is over the healing gets easier.
paige // October 16, 2009 at 6:31 pm |
Wish we all could be there to hold your hand, to remind you that you are NOT alone. Do something extra nice for yourself today gal. You need it.
xo
anon girl NYC // October 16, 2009 at 7:28 pm |
Been there….felt kind of numb, but also like a huge weight had been lifted.
Hoping you are feeling strong/good/light/loved/relieved/fabulous etc etc
esperandoazufan // October 16, 2009 at 10:58 pm |
Huge weight lifted is exactly how I felt. Numb, then suddenly , in the court room, when it was over and we were pronounced officially non-married, I started smiling so much I was almost laughing. In fact, I smiled so much at the judge I’m sure he thought I was hitting on him. Then, when he said we cannot marry anyone else for 6 months, then I really laughed out loud. HA HA HA. As if I would try. Pretty much floated out of there. But now, no plans for tonight. Oh, well, clean, kids, correcting. Guess life isn’t going to change too drastically too quickly. And that’s OK.
*Coop* // October 17, 2009 at 9:14 pm |
Well, it’s after 2:45. I’m a little late.
I’ve said a prayer for you…a simple prayer that all that is supposed to be will be.
And I smiled.